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Lately, I’ve been asking myself what I need more of in my life right now. The older I get, and the deeper I go into different aspects of my long kink journey, the more I notice what’s missing day to day. It isn’t about chasing new or adding more experiences to the list; that is a given. And I’ve already explored a lot of different dynamics, roles, and communities. What I keep coming back t...
Holding Space for Myself
Aug 20, 2025
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I keep circling this thought, and I notice others do too: I want to be better, but I’m not even sure what “better” actually means. The older I get, the more I realize I’m still searching for a definition, and every time I think I’ve found one, it shifts. I can guess at it: maybe happier, calmer, more grounded, kinder, more confident. But those are vague words, and they all feel a little ...
When Better Is Blurry
Aug 18, 2025
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I have finally answered the question that Sir asked me about a couple of weeks ago: Outside of kink, how do you view authenticity and connection in your friend groups, and how does that affect “bonding” with people? That question also prompted me to write Mapping Connections, where I laid out my definitions for acquaintances, friends, and chosen/logical family, and why those distinctions mat...
Authenticity Across All My Circles
Aug 15, 2025
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