The Hermit:
You are too comfortable with your solitude that you are having trouble coming off of your mountain to let anyone in.
You are safe on your mountain, no one can hurt you up there.
You learned and you healed, but you healed in solitude. Healing in a relationship and healing on your own are two different things.
When you are ready to come down from your safe mountain, you are going to have to break open some of those wounds that you healed while in solitude in order to full heal them in a relationship.
Thank you for listening to my Unsolicited Tarot Advice for the day :)