How would you define sexy? Would you first start off by talking about looks and aesthetics or would you focus more on the energy? Ask yourself those questions before you continue reading this blog.
Do you really want to know what’s sexy? True authenticity. The greatest act of rebellion in this society is expressing your truest self. The reward that you’ll reap, is the reward of fully engulfing yourself with the love that you oh so desire and need. Not from anyone else first, but from you first. To reclaim your power, which is also rooted in your sexiness, you must act exactly who you are meant to be. Remember, the world is your stage. You write the script for your performance 🎭.
Ask yourself these next set of questions:
How long am I going to keep giving the world my false representative? How long am I going to make myself unhappy just to put a smile on their face?
You know what else reaffirms your sexiness? Having boundaries when you let people know upfront how to treat you. You become a force to be reckoned with and this is not about being combative or aggressive. Sexiness is subtle, mysterious, seductive, and confident. The person that you really want to observe in a room is the one who’s the quietest, the one who doesn’t react to everything, the one who isn’t afraid to engage with others, or the one who is gentle with themselves. Study those kinds of people. Typically people like that, give themselves the grace they need to continue with whatever endeavors they are embarking on.
Reclaiming your sexy is not the difficult part. It’s the changing of your perspectives that makes it hard. When you have the world telling you that who you are, in its natural state, is not good enough— you tend to lean more towards your oppressors. When you decide to embark on this journey of oneness, you are now opening yourself up to be ridiculed and shunned by the majority. Even from your own community, and especially from your own family. When you decide to be the black sheep or the outlier now you become the weirdo. Jealousy will brew and anger will follow. When people can’t fully figure you out they do their best to try to solve who you are. This just simply mean that you are a mirror to their reflection that they hate to see. This means that you hold a level of power that they don’t. The crazy part about this is that when people get so angry at you because they can’t be you they start to make up shit about you in order to tarnish your image. Don’t allow the hearsay to knock you down. At least for too long.
So being sexy doesn’t just resonate with “sex”. Sex is the act, but your sexiness is your energy. This post was not going to be about lingerie and saying affirmations 20,000 times. We need to focus on as a collective how we show up for ourselves in every space we flock to. See you in part three.
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