When you start walking on the lane to find yourself you not only leave behind people but also sheds a skin that you wore because of the people you once loved. You take this decision for the first time to not make others happy and satisfied but for your inner happiness and to be finally free from all the bondages.
Initially it is difficult to align your actions with your intentions, but knowing yourself, your worth, your happiness is all it takes to take that step.
You break, you cry, you go through a turmoil, the changes around you are overwhelming but with time, the inner shift calms you down. Because that is the sole purpose of this journey!
You start accepting things!
You set yourself free by freeing the people around you!
You accept that to become a higher version of yourself you need to rise above and beyond, to wear a new skin owning your name, you need to shed the skin once owned by others!!
To have the shift within you, you need to momentarily relapse and jump back to the new version of you!! And you do that again and again not as an obligation or a task but as a soulful dance!! Because you are now addicted to the new person you are becoming, because you are now setting your standards that were once not acknowledged! because you are now starting to be free and letting others be free!
When you start walking on the lane to find yourself you not only leave behind people but also sheds a skin that you wore because of the people you once loved. You take this decision for the first time to not make others happy and satisfied but for your inner happiness and to be finally free from all the bondages.
And you make the room for yourself and create a life you always wanted to live.