A Personal Reflection on the Joys and Trials of Being in Love
Being in a relationship is my favorite feeling in the world.
There are countless wonderful aspects to being in an extended, intimate relationship, as well as a few not-so-wonderful ones. For me, the positives overwhelmingly outweigh the negatives. Here’s a glimpse into my experiences, though they’ll vary for each person.
The essence of a relationship, for me, is rooted in the profound sense of closeness. In a committed relationship, you gain a best friend, a confidant, a soulmate, a lover, an adventure partner, and a snuggle buddy. It’s a unique feeling of completeness. When something good happens, you have someone to share that joy with, which amplifies it. Conversely, when faced with challenges, having someone to lean on can ease your sadness.
As your lives intertwine, it feels as though your hearts occupy the same space. This deep connection transforms everything in the most beautiful way. It provides strength, security, joy, peace, laughter, comfort, warmth, and spirit. It becomes the centerpiece of your life—something you eagerly anticipate and cherish. There’s nothing quite like having someone to cuddle with on a chilly day, celebrating holidays with your loved one, or simply enjoying the warmth of a heartfelt hug.
The downsides are relatively minor. Dating can be costly and occasionally stressful. When things aren’t going well, it can consume your thoughts entirely, just as when things are going exceptionally well. The pressure of being someone’s anchor is real, and despite your best efforts, it may sometimes feel like it’s not enough.
While being someone's everything isn’t always easy, it remains the most important, rewarding, and wonderful experience I can imagine.