Allowed to Love & Bee Loved

"I am Allowed to Love & Bee Loved"

"YOU are Allowed to Love & Bee Loved"

Given the fact that there's social abuse trying to monitor who you can and can't love, this Human Rights Affirmation is pretty relevant as it is.

However, even when we ARE loved and cared about, how many of us truly believe it? Like really feel it deep down.

As an adoptee, this has been a life long battle for me. The cult didn't help. Failed relationships didn't help. The little girl that wanted to be loved wanted to have kids so to finally be loved unconditionally. I wasn't prepared for the periods of parenting where kids hate their parents! 🤦🏼‍♀️

I didn't learn to how to sit with Love until I sat with the depths of my soul through the imagined expression of Jesus. Being brought up in a cult, I was taught to have my quiet time with Jesus. It was there that I learned how to access the subconscious.

It was there that I learned how to sit with myself feeling broken and unwanted only to find acceptance in Jesus. (I now see it as I was projecting an image onto how my soul wanted to be loved. And that is totally OK! It's a great tool as long as it's used with precaution.) The important thing is I learned how to face and embrace myself.

My partner can't love me the way I need to be? I already love and accept myself just the way I am. I give myself what I wished others would give me. I know how to be treated because my heart set the standard.

I can recognize the energy because I've trained myself to be attuned to the deepest parts of me.

I don't think we can ever fully REALLY be intimate with our souls the way that we are with ourselves. But I do think there are many connections that come really really close.

They're the really special ones.

They don't have to be romantic relationships. They can be platonic or family.

It's one thing to be able to peel the layers back and embrace your own soul in the secret stillness.

But it's an entirely other game for 2 human beeings to expose themselves and be held in understanding, love and acceptance.

There is no greater miracle to me.

I am so glad I have been able to experience it a few times in different glimpses.

I believe this is the greatest need we all have. Maybe if we made soul intimacy with ourselves a priority, we wouldn't focus so much on tearing others down.

When was the last time you sat with the depths of your soul to really LISTEN to your heart, and what your soul is crying for?

Have you ever done that?

Affirmations work, but Simply Beeing is so much more than empty affirmations.

It's sitting with the deep parts of us that we're too intimidated by.

And choosing to love ourselves and each other in it with courage and grace.

Because at the end of the day, there aren't as many differences between us than it seems.

Sure, I have this part of me that still spouts off negative self talk. Saying I'm just too different and too intense for anyone. Believing that my presence is more harmful than the safe haven it's supposed to be. That I cause people to react negatively, and in turn comes back to harm me. So I self isolate. Afraid of getting too close for too long.

But then I remember all the people that I have found mutual respect and love with. Even long term.

And I know that those feelings are just surface and in the moment. They're not my truth.

My truth Is Love. Because I've experienced it. I know it exists. It is the most endearing and powerful force in this life.

Loving yourself is wonderful and Necessary.

But that's not the end game.

We need each other. We need to Love each other. Not just on the surface, but to see each other's Souls. And not turn away.

But to keep leaning in and find safety. Purpose. Makes our journey worth it.

If I know how GOOD this type of love feels, why would I want to stop anyone else from finding it where they can?

We need more love not less.

Because true love lives in abundance and can never run out, even if it end up parting ways. Love never dies.

We all deserve to feel this.

If only we get out of our own way.

If only we obtain the courage to face ourselves, and decide to love without judgemental who's hiding in there.

Is curl up in a ball often.

Not because of insecurity, but the opposite. Because I'm neurodivergent and kinda do everything opposite of what's typical. Lol

But curling up in a ball is what I do to express my happiness and feelings of safety. Like I'm cuddling with my own soul. In the invisible places of my heart- the places I go without words.

Like I'm floating again.

And to experience this level of depth choreographed with another, absolutely Blows My Mind!

How lucky are we to love and bee loved.

Human Rights starts and ends and encompasses everything in between with LOVE.

Love is our foundation and our goal.

Love is what we hope for all.

Especially for those who are so entrenched in self-loathing and hatred.

My Human Rights Consulting is more than just knowing Human Rights. It's more than just Affirmation and breathing exercises.

It's coming back to the deepest parts of ourselves that we were too intimated of before, and enjoying ourselves instead.

It's learning to believe the good things after life has given us every reason not to.

I've been on this soul journey of mine for decades now. Comes naturally to me like Breathing. It's my greatest passion and joy, and would be honored to sit with you in this space as you go deeper into yourself as well.

This is how we regain strength and begin to heal as a nation amidst all the damage and rubble.

Connect with me. See how transformative Love can be when we get out of our own way.

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