You will be surprised how your life can change just by the simple act of rethinking a thought. Change your wording in reference to whatever it is that you need or desire to do or be. So, let your first step be revamping your vocabulary. Instead of I can’t, say I can. Instead of saying it’s hard and impossible, say It’s a challenge however it is possible.
Believe me when I say, I know it’s not easy talking to yourself in this manner when you are faced with critical circumstances (especially those that are not in your control). I don’t know anyone who hasn’t faced various hardships, disappointments, lost, etc…at some point in their lives. Ooh and if you haven’t, good for you and keep living…Trials, tribulations have no distinctions between race, greed, colour, sexual orientation, financial status, religious beliefs or the lack thereof. We all experience ups and downs. However, I know that trouble/troubles don’t last always. And none rings truer then those that have been created by our own lips. So, to thy own self be kind.