Since transitioning from being a serial volunteerer while in corporate, to becoming a full-time entrepreneur, I realized how little I valued my own time and skills—especially compared to how much I valued others’. I had started investing both my capital and time in underserved founders. Through the process, I learned a big lesson about my money mindset: I had a deep belief that doing good in the world and making money were mutually exclusive.
This reminds me of what Adam Grant calls "doormat givers" in his book Give and Take (which I highly recommend!). These individuals give so much time, money, and energy that they leave nothing for themselves. In contrast, "successful givers" value their time and skills. They are just as ambitious as “takers,” but their motivation to succeed comes from a desire to give even more.
You may have found this page through a workshop, talk, thought partnership, or coaching session I’m conducting outside my regular work. If you found value in our interaction, I’d appreciate any contribution based on what you took away and your current situation. I also welcome feedback on what you gained and how I could improve.
On this journey, I’ve learned that I’m not alone in these self-limiting beliefs. I hope to help others recognize their own value and time, contributing to a flow of conscious capitalism—a flywheel of generosity and growth—that can elevate us all.