Women inherently need validation from men as a way to sooth the constant state of internal chaos they are experiencing due to the ever changing hormonal fluctuation of emotion within themselves.
Because of this, women feel most fulfilled when they are in a state of desiring validation/looking for approval from a man they love while men feel most fulfilled when he is doing the opposite.
THIS IS NOT A DEMONSTRATION OF WEAKNESS/TRAUMA ON BEHALF OF EITHER SEX.
He is not cold/disconnected.
She is not needy/too dependent.
It’s a beautiful thing that if fully understood, empowers both sexes.
A healthy man in his power feels empowered/connected to his woman when she is dependent on him, the opposite is NOT true.
Stop telling men they are cold/disconnected/not emotional enough because they are demonstrating acts of not needing any validation from his woman.
Stop telling women they are needy/too dependent/too emotional because she is desiring approval/needing emotional stability from her man.
Emotional surrender is the greatest gift a woman can give to her man.
Emotional autonomy is the greatest gift a man can give to his woman.
If we all understood this, the state of the western world would be much more cohesive.
WE ARE NOT WOMEN.
Onward, men🚀💪🏼