A contemplation on Gate 59 in human design in its relation to connection and gate 44 in its role in taming the ego in interaction.
In a world dominated by agendas and expectations, how often do we truly listen? How often do we engage with pure curiosity, leaving aside our preconceived notions and desires? Listening with love means connecting with someone without an agenda. It goes beyond the typical discussions about boundaries and fulfilling personal needs. Instead, it invites us to engage with a purity and curiosity that transcends the ordinary.
Listening Without an Agenda
In spiritual practices and the pursuit of healthy relationships, we often find ourselves entangled in psychological dogma, labelling our attachments as anxious, secure, or avoidant. But what if it doesn't matter? What if everything is attachment? When we attach definitions and expectations to our relationships, we inadvertently introduce an agenda that hinders true connection.
Agendas can obstruct the possibility of pure manifestation and alignment. They interfere with the electromagnetic connection that potential brings. Our attachment to specific outcomes leads us to miss out on what love can genuinely be—both in relationships with others and in our self-love practice. This attachment separates us from the intricate and vital process of living a life aligned with who we truly are.
A Call to Action: Explore Deeper
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The Nonsense of Separation
Many philosophies compartmentalise aspects of awakening and higher consciousness, separating them from the body and the world. But at the end of the day, what truly matters is what fulfills us. The invitation to listen with love is an invitation to engage with our predispositions and build a foundation of trust.
When we say, "I see you. I want to exchange with you," we open the door to real connection. We learn to trust our bodies, noticing how a person’s voice feels, their scent, or the touch they bring. This awareness moves us away from fear, allowing us to understand who we are and what others mean to us.
The Power of Listening Without Need
Imagine listening without need—encountering people, places, or things without attaching a predetermined meaning to them. Imagine growing and learning through interaction without fearing trial and error. Mistakes become opportunities for growth, free of shame and judgment. This level of connection is achieved by listening with love.
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Conclusion
Listening with love is a profound practice that invites us to engage with the world differently. It challenges us to trust our bodies, relinquish agendas, and connect with others authentically. This approach enriches our relationships and empowers us to live lives aligned with our true selves.
By embracing this practice, we foster genuine connections and experience life more fully. So, I encourage you to experiment with listening without an agenda. You might discover new dimensions of connection and growth, leading to a more fulfilling and authentic life.
Can you listen without an agenda? Join us on this journey of exploration and see what possibilities unfold.