Attributing outcomes to individual strength or flaws can be problematic if we don't also recognise the role of circumstances and the complex interactional factors in life that lead to said outcomes.
If we can learn to appreciate the role that the system plays in individual choices, I think this could help us break unhelpful and automatic biased thinking patterns. Perhaps the key to making better decisions is to learn how to think more systemically rather than individualistically.
https://www.huddlewisdom.com/blog/the-blame-game-do-you-play