Today I’m going to show you how to get out of the friend zone. But before you attempt to get out of the friend zone you must first understand how you got there in the first place.
Contrary to what some ignorant men believe, women don’t just randomly put guys in the friend zone. You get put there because of the way you behave. Essentially, you fail to create attraction in her.
Now, many people would say, move on… why should you bother with one woman that doesn’t want you. There are many other women who would love to be more than a friend.
Maybe, maybe not…and it’s here that the understanding of why you ended up in the friend zone is important. Since you essentially behaved your way into the friend zone with this one woman, moving onto the next woman without understanding how and why you ended up there with her, means you’ll probably do the same with all the other women you approach.
So, where does that leave you? Frustrated and angry at women for constantly rejecting you.
So now that you understand that you’re actually responsible for getting yourself into the friend zone, let me show you how you can get out of it.
When a woman says she can only offer you friendship accept it. Then cultivate your friendship so that she wouldn’t mind spending time with you. Then suggest going on an outing with her.
Once she agrees and goes out with you, show her a side of you she’s never seen before… a side that is more confident, fun, daring, challenging and flirty. One thing you MUST DO during this outing is to touch her a lot. Not in a creepy way but in a confident way that fits in well with the vibe that you have going on.
Now here’s what’s going to happen. She’ll pick up pretty quickly that you’ve changed and she may even ask you why you’re acting differently. If she does, just ignore it or tell her you’re not acting…that she’s imagining things.
Never tell her that you’re interested in her romantically…if she mentions anything about you and her being involved, say you’re not interested in her romantically. Tell her that she reminds you of your clumsy little sister and hold her hand.
She’s not going to like that and will subconsciously try to win your favor. At the end of the day, after all the fun and excitement the two of you had, this woman will replay the day’s events in her mind.
Because she enjoyed this day with you so much, she’ll jump at the next opportunity to go out with you again. So let a few days pass and invite her out again. But this time, you must take the flirtiness up a notch, touch her more… hold her hands more… get closer to her.
Then hug her… release the hug slowly but still hold her around her waist and look in her eyes… observe how close her face is from you… if her face is very close to you, she’s probably ready for a kiss…then just kiss her (don’t ask).
After you’ve kissed her, take her hand and lead her towards another activity or continue with what you were doing prior. But you must act totally normal as if nothing happened.
If she asks why you’ve kissed her, tell her you just wanted to test if she can kiss. If she asks how she did, just say she didn’t do too badly but she still needs practice. By telling her “she needs more practice” you’re setting her up for another kissing session.
But she will know that things have changed and will probably start touching you more in a romantic way. She may even kiss you.
And that is how you get out of the friend zone.