Hey there! I am Dear Queer, an advice columnist and best-selling author based in the San Francisco Bay Area. I advise on dating, sex, and relationships of all kinds. No question is too big or too small, too gay or too straight, as I tackle anything you are brave enough to ask. I give heartfelt and humorous advice from hard-won, lived experiences at the intersection of being a lesbian, mother, lover, and fighter for life. As both a queer mama and medical marvel, I flipped trauma into testimony when faced with the one-in-a-billion odds of a triple diagnosis of Chordoma cancer, Multiple Sclerosis, and brain tumors. I share my success story in the #1 Amazon Bestseller, The Life-Changing Power of Self-Love. For your own customizable copy of the healing meditation I created to aid my freedom, join my membership here at any level: Ally✨, Star ⭐️, or Super Star 🌟, and I gotchu. 🌈🌈🌈