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You already got the public version of this (shared on my personal Facebook profile). This is the part I didn't soften for a general feed — because you're not a general feed, you're the room I actually trust to hear it plain.
There's a version of this story people already have in their heads. The one where a man asks for money on the internet and you're supposed to wonder what he did wrong. Did he not budget right. Did he not try hard enough. Did he not want it bad enough.
I'm not writing this to defend myself to strangers. I'm writing it because you're already here, already invested, and you deserve the whole shape of it — not the edited-for-algorithm version.
The math, without the polish.
Sick pay accrues at two to three hours a pay period. That's it. That's the whole safety net the job gives me. When I actually get sick — sick enough I can't stand behind a register for eight hours — two or three hours doesn't touch it. This pay period I lost roughly half a check. Not from slacking. From a system that hands you a teaspoon of protection and acts shocked when a real illness needs a bucket.
Even a clean, full 80-hour check — no sick days, nothing extra — barely survives contact with rent once taxes, transportation, groceries, and basic hygiene take their cut. I'm not bad with money. The money was never enough to begin with.
Here's the part I haven't said publicly in this much detail.
The Bank of America account that got flagged — I want you to understand how much that one event has cost me, quietly, for months. It was a remote job I believed was real, and it wasn't — the whole thing was a scam built around getting me to deposit a check. I never withdrew a cent of it. I was the target, not the operator. And the bank closed the account anyway, over how it looked rather than what actually happened to me. I've mailed a physical case to their fraud department. I'm still waiting.
Since then: every loan application, every credit card, every "second chance" program — denied. Not because my score is bad. It's actually gone up, into the 650s. Because there's a flag sitting on my file that has nothing to do with numbers and everything to do with a bank's internal caution overriding actual facts. That flag is the reason I can't float myself for even a week. Not laziness. Not poor planning. A closed door with my name on it that I didn't put there.
What's underneath all of it.
I'm six months into this lease. I've already lived through losing housing once, and I will tell you honestly — the thought of it happening again sits in my chest like something with weight. No savings. Nothing to sell. My parents are not a fallback, and that's a closed door for reasons that have nothing to do with money.
When an unauthorized $98 charge or a subscription that wouldn't stop billing hits a life with zero cushion, it isn't an inconvenience. It's a detonation. That's the actual difference between struggling and this — the margin for error is not thin. It's gone.
Why you, specifically, get this version.
You're the room where I don't have to perform resilience. Where I can say: this is hard, I'm scared of losing what I have, and I'm still showing up to work anyway — without someone deciding that means I'm fine, actually, and don't need anything.
What you give here — five dollars, ten, whatever it is — isn't charity to me. It's the difference between one person carrying a roof alone and a room of people who showed up. That's the whole philosophy behind everything I make. It's not a metaphor when it's this close to the ground.
I'm still here. Still working. Still writing my way through it instead of around it. Thank you for being one of the people who makes that possible.
— Traie
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