I think we all a vision of who and what we want to be. For some its being a boss babe wearing the sharp looking suites, others may want to be the fashionista, some want to be the fun flirty pinup girl and some want the magical and mystic vibe. None of these are wrong. I often get asked in my life coaching business how do I reach that, how do I get to that level? Well I am going to share a couple of my favorite tips to help you out.
First you have to know who you want to be. There is no way to reach a destination if you do not know where that destination is. So ask yourself , who do you want to be? Close your eyes and picture yourself as you would be if you had already reached your big goals and dreams. How does this successful and happy version of you look? How dose she dress?
2nd, Now that you know who you want to be take that image of her(yourself) How can you start adding that style now. Don't say you can't afford it, stay with me here. If you want to be the total boss babe, can you get a cute blazer from a thrift store or maybe on sale? Do you have one already? Now How dose it feel to wear that blazer with a pair of nice jeans and heels and a nice top? Look on Pinterest , put int boss babe or business style, look at the different outfits create a style board. Now look into your closet, see if you can recreate one or more outfits with what you already own. As a personal stylist I often surprise clients with putting together 2 outfits in their desired style from what they already own. So you can get started changing your style without spending a lot of money.
3rd. Ok put that outfit on! Look at yourself in a mirror, how dose it feel? Have you been , not wearing that blazer because you thought it was to dressy or professional for you? Allow yourself to see yourself as the boss babe the business woman you want to be. Or put on those jeans and printed T with a v neck and heel and rock a pinup look! How dose it feel to see yourself as who and what you want to be? Allow your self to feel those feeling and really see yourself in that way!
Own it love! As you look at yourself in your new look, claim your new identity ! Say it out loud I am a Boss Babe business woman, Or I am a sexy pinup girl. I am a Glamourous fashionista. Own who you want to be. And Take steps everyday to embody that!
Now if you need help with coming up a style or look to help you step into who you want to be, I highly recommend working with a personal stylist . I do offer private sessions feel free to message me for info.