Working as a confidence coach , I often hear woman say they would feel more confident if they lost weight. Or that they cant see themselves as beautiful because they feel like they are to heavy. Yet when I pose the question if they see other woman who are thick as beautiful they immediately say yes. So why can they not see their beauty. It fascinates me that so often woman can see others beauty but their own.
You see being beautiful or dare I say sexy-is a mindset. Its finding what makes you feel confident, and loving yourself not focusing on your faults! I know lots of woman who are considered to be plus size but are very beautiful and sexy. And others see them that way as well, why? Because they are confident and know their worth and see their own beauty. And, how you see yourself affects how others see you, their confidence shines through and everyone around them sees their beauty.
So if you are feeling a little down on yourself and want to feel beautiful and desirable. play dress up in your closet and makeup bag! Find what make you feel beautiful and start dressing that way! Write out 3 to 5 affirmations such as I am Beautiful , I am stunning! Just be sure your affirmations are positive and that you allow yourself to believe it . Next be sure to compliment yourself daily , weather its my ass looks awesome in these jeans, or my eye makeup in on point today, give yourself complements everyday! Now be ready for others to compliment you as you make these changes! And, when the compliments come in smile and say thank you and receive it believe it and live it!
Now if you need a little help finding what makes you feel beautiful, or need help creating a new look that makes you glow message me and book a free consultation!
Till next time stay glam and magical!!