If you find yourself daydreaming of having a different life, and being a completely different person, you are most likely living out of alignment with your true self. And, when I say dreaming about being a different person, I am talking being you, just a different version of you.
If this is how you are currently feeling, it may be time for a complete life makeover. Meaning it is time for you to start growing into or working to become the women you want to be. It starts with a decision, the decision to change. Then once you make that decision, you need to get clear on who and what you want to be. Ask yourself who do you want to be, or perhaps I should put it this way, what type of women do you want to be? Write it out in detail, what style clothes do you want to wear, what type of house do you want? Do you want to be married, kids? Or do you prefer being single? What type of work do you want to do? And what type of income do you want? Create a vision of who you want to be and the life you want.
Once you have your vision, ask yourself what do you need to do to achive these things? What needs to change to make this possible? Now you are ready to set goals on making the changes needed in order for you to become the women you want to be. You can't become a new woman, and stay in the same life, you won't be in alignment and that leads to self-doubt and sabotage! Once you have your goals you can start working towards them, if you are unsure of what you should do, thats ok! What you will need to do is simply as yourself what the next step is! Sit quietly and simply ask yourself what the next step is. You might not get the answer right then, but fairly soon you will get an idea or inspired action to do, and that is your next step.
This is why I include spirituality in my More than Makeup coaching program, having a spiritual connection and practice really helps you home in and receive the guidance needed for you to reach your goals.
Of course, you are going to have to face your inner critic and negative self-talk and change the way you talk to and about yourself. And you are going to have to work on confidence. Once you have your mindset mastered, or at least are aware of your thoughts and how to manage them, you get to have fun deciding on what makeup looks you like the best and create your signature look and style! Your look, your style should be a reflection of you, and what you want to be known for. You should choose your style based on what you like, what makes you feel good, and what makes you feel the most confrontable and confident! Notice I didn't say anything about weight, or age! That is because those things do not define you! You more than a dress size or your age! You are a women! What are you passionate about? What message do you want to send out into the world? Dress to impress yourself! Chose outfits and accessories based on what makes you feel beautiful and confident! Choose the style that reflects you! Do not worry about what someone might say or think! When you focus on impressing yourself first everything else will fall into place!
I hope you enjoyed these tips and if you would like to dive further into becoming the women you want to be, I would love to have you as one of my More than Makeup coaching clients, You can chose between a one time 90 min session for $120 or I offer a 30 day package for $400. Check out the extras section here on the website or pm me!