If you are reading this in 2025, I just want to say congratulations you've made it! Give yourself a pat on the back for making it into a new year because God gave you another chance to do this differently.
To start the new year off right, let's talk about ways you can shower your man with love and adoration! Now ladies, this is only for men who pay your bills, are there for you when you need them, and those who make you feel special. Ask yourself, does he make you a priority outside of sex? If not, let that loser go.
This post is not for bitter women or feminist who hate men either. Now, that we have that cleared, let's get into it ;).
Ways to show love without spending a dime:
Ask him how his day was? Show him that you're genuinely interested in what goes on within his day to day.
Ask him if there is anything he needs you to do for him that'll lighten his load? This shows that you care about his feelings and that you value what he does for you.
Respect his boundaries/Give him space. One thing I've heard from a lot of men is that when they've had a long day at work, the last thing they want is to be pestered or nagged as soon as they walk through their door. Give him time to decompress, let him unwind. Run his bath and add a little peppermint or eucalyptus essential oil to his water, or add a shower steamer to his shower. If you already don't have these things, then you can buy them, they don't cost much.
Clean you guy's home and play soft or jazz instrumental music as wind down music before he returns home. Music has been proven to improve ones mood, so it doesn't hurt to put some on.
Organize his work space, his clothing, and shoes. Please only do this if your man wouldn't mind you doing so. Some men are very particular about their work space.
Ways to show love if you choose to spend money on him:
Listen to his most recent requests or desires. If your man has been talking about wanting the latest sneakers, a new pair of headphones, or anything that he's been saying that he wants, it would probably mean a lot to him if you surprised him with that said gift.
Pay attention to detail! If you notice that something tangible is missing from his life, decide whether or not if he really needs it. If he does, get it for him. Show him that you pay attention to him. It could be something as simple as getting him a pack of new socks. The ones he has may have too many holes in them. Y'all know how men are.
Pay for classes or events that are great for couples. Pottery making, candle making, paint and sips, comedy shows, sporting events, zip lining, spa days, cooking classes, going to the movies, shooting range, meditation circles, dinner in the sky, or helicopter rides. Hell, curate a treasure hunt if you want to be adventurous lol. I would hope that before you spend a dime on a man, he's FINANCIALLY proven that he will take care of you, especially emotionally and spiritually.
Cook for the man. Now if you're a woman like me who can't really cook you can either hire someone to cook like a private chef or even his momma. You can also order takeout too from his favorite restaurant.
Put on a show for him. Go buy some lingerie from your favorite spot (MAKE SURE IT'S HIS FAVORITE COLOR), get the house ready for him, and focus on aromatherapy to set the mood. Buy some of those string lights, set the color to red, blue, green or purple. Or whatever color that doesn't give you a headache. If you like to dance, get a pole or just use what the lord blessed you with. Turn on some sensual music and dance for that man. Show him how connected you are to your own body. If you're not comfortable with dancing, you can also put on show for him by self masturbation. Show him how you please yourself, but don't let him touch you, no matter how excited he gets. Make him yearn for it. Then allow him to unleash all of that pent up energy. Thank me later.
I hope this helped you ladies and gents and gave you some ideas as to what you can do for your man. A bonus one is, scheduling his doctor's visits when he's too busy to do so. Help him update his calendar.
Remember, IF you're resourceful, you still won't have to break the bank or even spend a dime of your own money :). Ciao 💋
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