The best way to deal with your enemies is to ignore them. The best way to deal with your enemies is to forgive them. The best way to deal with your enemies is to deny their existence.
But it does not mean that you should take them lightly. they will thrive on your ignorance. period. Make sure you know everything about them and instead of finding how they are hurting you find why they are hurting you. learn to read the circumstances rather than the actual event. Sometimes we are so ignorant that we don't even realise that we have enemies. So make sure you are aware of your mistakes and failures because they are the breeding ground for your enemies.
As Martin Luther King Jr Once said
"Now there is a final reason I think that Jesus says, "Love your enemies." It is this: that love has within it a redemptive power. And there is a power there that eventually transforms individuals. Just keep being friendly to that person. Just keep loving them, and they can’t stand it too long. Oh, they react in many ways in the beginning. They react with guilt feelings, and sometimes they’ll hate you a little more at that transition period, but just keep loving them. And by the power of your love, they will break down under the load. That’s love, you see. It is redemptive, and this is why Jesus says, love. There’s something about love that builds up and is creative. There is something about hate that tears down and is destructive. So love your enemies."