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Listen,
There are people in your life for whom your pain, your traumas and your struggle are unconsciously a gift - because that pain, trauma and struggle make you:
1. Dependent on them for support - emotionally, financially or otherwise
2. Good for bonding with, because y'all can swap stories of your dysfunction
3. Attractive to them - whether for friendship, business, or romantically, because familiar spirits find each other . . .
And you don't even realize :-
because you love them,
because they're always there for you,
because you're always there for them, and y'all share on deep levels,
that these people/relationships are actually HORRIBLE for you and standing in the way of EVERYTHING that The I AM That I AM has for you . . .
Thing is, the DAY you DO realize the Truth of how toxic and crippling those relationships based on negativity and trauma sharing really are and you leave them behind . . .
Aaaaaaall the Goodness and Blessings that The I AM That I AM has been storing up for you, get released like a tidal wave into your life!
WHAM!!!
Obliterating EVERYTHING that came before, elevating you and changing your paradigms forever!
I therefore encourage you to look around your life at ALL your relationships, and identify whether they're based mostly on Goodness, Positivity, Wins and Peace . . . or whether they're mostly based on "sharing" and "support" and "being there for" each other, in dysfunction and sad stories. 🤔
Because if they're based on the latter, then I PROMISE you that THAT'S the reason things are stagnant, delayed and going wrong CONSISTENTLY, in your life. 🙃
Signed
Your Professional Truth Telling Bestie
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