When a child has a hissy fit.... You don't lower your vibrational level to join theirs. You lift them up and out of that little fit, ....by being more of you and showing them how to be.
Giving your power away, blaming, projections, expectations, separations, judgements, rejections.... Those are all distractions. Stopping you from staying on your high vibrational level. That's all you have to focus on. That's all you have to control You and your vibrational level. How you feel. At all times. And that, my beautiful friend, is how you are the greatest contribution to you, to everyone around you and to our beautiful planet.