Advice-Opinion is necessary. Great insights can actually be helpful to make the right choices. But sometimes advice is offered when you didn’t ask for it. And, the advice comes from every kind of person whether they are in your shoes or not, or they have the life experiences or not. I’m sure, we all know such persons around us, who visit just for this purpose.
We all are prone to such unsolicited opinions in a way or otherwise. They might know or not that you’re dealing with a crisis or struggling with something. Or, you want advice or not, they will talk anyway. They will tell you what to do and what not. Strange, but sometimes they order you too. They will straightly shove you and try to manipulate with their long thread of opinions and advice. That actually irritates you.
No wonder, sometimes the advice feels like criticism because they intend to do that. They absolutely judge you and point your every mistake and offers advice for each pointed mistake. Also, they won’t forget to check you, whether you heard out or not. Eventually, this puts you in a bad mood zone of resentment as they invaded your boundaries.
Doesn’t matter you want it or not, they will keep showing their illusion of superiority for a particular subject or maybe for all.
To what extent,
Do we actually need advice-To what extent do we need advice? Do we need advice only when we ask for it or let society impose without going through our shoes? Or, what if someone is offering through guardianship? Let’s refrain from the perspective.
Yes, we need advice but to what extent and with whom depends upon only an individual, the receiver. Personally, I think the advice and opinion that arise out of the concern from our guardian or the loved ones are honest. Yea, sometimes they irritate you too. But that’s the concern your close one is feeling. They are harmless and genuine and pure Love.
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https://journeyofpg.com/2022/01/unsolicited-opinions-from-random-people/