If you think this is a massive Anti-Feminist Article, you would be incorrect. However, if you think this is an unfiltered scathing view of the REALITY of what is presently going on vs. the idealistic perspective filled with excuses and nonsensical justifications, while shining a light on the realities that are the foundation of Human Survival & Quality Existence, then you would be correct.
What I’m going to state is going to be seen by those who need you to keep the Enslaved Nose Ring to remain locked into your face mad as hell. I will only state what is actually going on presently, I will not be imaginative, exaggerative, nor vindictive towards any particular group or type of Women.
I find Women to be the most beautiful, loving, caring, nurturing beings on Planet Earth. Every human being has a level of intelligence, so that goes without saying. Two plus Two still equals four, we all know that to be true, and it doesn’t take a Man or Woman to know that better than someone else.
I will not be touting the Old Days, when Women knew their place, and Men were assumed to be so dominant & in control. That also was a farce, as many Men abused their roles in the households, and were far from upstanding to say the least.
With that being said, let's move forward.
There is a natural way of learning between siblings. The Oldest Child commonly runs full speed into every pitfall, mistake, & error, and the Second Child witnesses his or her actions, and immediately takes those examples and does the polar opposite of such actions, and walks through life seemingly flawlessly. This has been documented between Brothers or Sisters, and whether the siblings were one a male and the other female or vice versa.
When I was a Young Adult from 19 years old to 25 years old, I was what many call in my Arrogant Youth phase of Life. Nothing could bring me down, I was immortal in my eyes. However, due to the increased influx of STD’s I was very protective of my Health when it came to sexual encounters with Young Ladies. After moving to Atlanta at 30 years old I even went as far as asking Young Ladies I was dating if they were willing to take a STD Test at the local Clinic with me, so we both knew each other were clear of any such STDs before engaging in a sexual relationship. Believe it or not, 65%-70% of the time Ladies were willing to take the test with me. Obviously, since I knew I was clean I would still do it again with them as a sign that I wasn’t trying to only test them.
Additionally, as I watched the Single Mother Syndrome taking hold, I took a firm stand that I would never leave a Child of mine behind to struggle without a Father. Nor would I leave a woman I once loved enough to impregnate to fend for herself against the World, while trying to take care of my Child all alone, with the advent of help from her family, if possible.
With that being said, you may be able to grasp a small view of my perspective on life that was in line with my Faith, Beliefs, and Spiritual Convictions. As a Man that grew up with a Mother who believed and taught my Sister to care for her body, with the understanding that it is her final decision when she was going to have children, and not simply due to accidental impregnation out on a date. Therefore, it was firmly believed in my household, even as Christians, that a Woman has the right to decide if she is ready to have children or not, and if she is not ready to have children she has the right to make the decision to terminate the pregnancy, within the safe parameters to do so, as she pleases. My Mother also fully educated my Sister about all the varieties of Birth Control products.
Even as a Man that has a strong relationship with God Almighty, I stand by my Family’s convictions to this day.
My Sister went on to be married and have a lovely handsome son.
With that being said, it is my sincere hope that you may have a better perspective from which you may distinguish & understand my future statements, idealisms, and beliefs within my train of thought throughout this Article.
I am not a Conservative in thought or Politically.
I believe the mind is Limitless and the Soul is priceless, but they both are affected by the events, material absorbed, and/or consumed by or within one’s environment. Due to the realities of Social Media, one’s environment is also the content such an individual chooses to absorb via Social Media as well.
MEN & WOMEN ARE NOT EQUAL, even though there is no limitation to one’s Mental Capacity & Acumen whether they are a Man or a Woman. However, the process of thought between Men & Women has been scientifically confirmed to be significantly different as well.
With that being said, once again may I state that the relationship between Men & Women is Symbiotic and 100% Dependent upon one another. Obviously, in line with Procreation, but the link between the two has vastly numerous structures that make life easier for Men & Women as a whole. From the idea of Marriage, to the idea of having a large Family, being three or more Children.
Enter Feminism, which at one point in the History of the United States & Europe had justification. As Men of Europe & America during that era for some reason found it necessary to put Laws in place to make it “Illegal” for women to do a variety of things publicly. From Education, Clothing, where they could have entry too, and to Jobs if any. You find this train of thought and methodology to be constant as other races & nationalities also came into the picture over the vast timeline of both countries.
However, with the era of The Great Wars ending after the Vietnam War, that ended April 30, 1975. With that came multiple Social out cries. For Race Equality, Veteran Aide, and Women’s Rights being pushed by the ideal of Feminism once more. From that moment forward the echo of Feminism has continuously popped up over & over again with less & less justification or reasoning for pushing the false Idealism itself.
Let’s analyze this issue in simple terms.
Can a Woman get an Equal Education? (yes)
Can a Woman enter any establishment she wishes? (yes)
Can a Woman apply to Work in any position she wishes? (yes)
Can a Woman own Fire Arms? (yes)
Can a Woman Dress in any manner she so chooses? (yes)
Can a Woman Buy Property & Automobiles? (yes)
Can a Woman be a Politician? (yes)
Can a Woman join the Military? (yes)
Can a Woman play or participate in Athletics? (yes)
From this small viewpoint, there is literally nothing a Woman can’t do physically, mentally, creatively, or objectively be it personally or in a business context presently.
One of the ugly truths that everyone wants to avert their eyes from is that Homosexual Women or Lesbians and Mentally Ill or Broken Females have Hijacked Feminism during the period between the 80’s & 90’s, and have been derailing Females Life decisions ever since.
Yes, that is a harsh statement, and I stand by it, as I have personally investigated this reality, and every time I get to the core of a specific publicly pushed subject there’s a Lesbian Woman at the center of the conversation proclaiming to be the flag bearer of that particular Feminist movement.
There’s a logic at play here, one that few Females seem to take into consideration.
“Why would I, as a Woman, want to be ALONE, BY MYSELF, and without a Loving Male Partner, simply to supposedly do as I please? When in fact, I can do as I please while in a relationship, to a large degree, with a Loving Male Partner that may evolve into a Marriage and Children in the years to come.”
Anytime you see an Illogical set of rules, values, or actions, you can backtrack it to a flawed foundational idealism or structure. At the same level of the contradiction of giving your hard earned Money to the Church, hindering your household and prolonging the advent of saving money for your Family Needs, while the Minister, Reverend, or Priest drives off in a Luxury Mercedes Bends, Rolls Royce, or Cadillac. I say this as a devout Christian, as it is known & confirmed that you absolutely cannot PAY Money to God Almighty for a Blessing.
But the damage is now done. The Devil is dancing in the middle of the street, as the Single Mother Syndrome is now the norm. Single Women are screaming for Men not to talk to them in Public, then posting content on Social Media stating: "They don’t understand why Men don’t speak to them anymore in public." Acting a Fool in the local Gyms for attention, then when a Man peers at them for more than 10 seconds, they record them and state that such a Man is a Perverted Weirdo for staring at them. In addition to Selling their bodies via Prostitution or Pornography on different sites on the Internet.
Somehow, no Female seems to ever take into account that the primary source of Women Posting idiotic Videos on Social Media are Mentally Ill or Functionally Mentally Ill. Next thing you know another Group of Women are emulating the actions of the Mentally Broken Females who initially posted such content.
From ridiculous physical & economic standards for perspective Male partners to outlandish first date requirements that literally have no place in logical Mentally Balanced thinking whatsoever.
With the advent of Feminist Idealisms the gap between Men and Women is now so shattered and broken that I truly don’t know if it is possible to be corrected without a Cataclysmic Event taking place that shatters Society down to its purest form of Survival Structure once again.
Unfortunately in stating that, the Horrifyingly Ugly Reality that would fall upon the heads of Women would be a Real Life Hell, as Women would crushingly fall back into their natural place within the Laws of Nature, and the transition would be anything but an easy process. As Men would immediately take possession of those Women they wish to keep, and the remaining women would be nothing more than sheep to be done with as Men please.
What most women don’t take into account literally, is the Ugly Reality that the Laws of Man, enforced by current governing criminal code laws, that allow the Police to be weaponized, are the only thing on this planet that has prevented the Animalistic Characteristics of Men from being expressed on a daily basis. Thereby, once 911 is no longer an option, and the Police aren’t on their way upon your beckoning call, what then? That’s when the Ugly Reality slams into you at 100mph. If you need an example of this, when Hurricane Katrina hit Louisiana in 2005, along with the big city of New Orleans, the horror stories that came out of the Superdome rescue center was a reflection of when there’s no 911 to call. Obviously, I will not recount the ugly acts that took place at that time.
Obviously, that’s not something I want to see happen. In fact, this is one of the motivating factors of me writing such an Article. To help those Good Women who have begun to see there cliff ahead, as the Social Norm continues to march ladies off the cliff’s edge continuously.
As the gap between Men & Women continues to widen due to the ignorance of some, and the Mental Illness of others, what can be done to differentiate your mentality or how you’re perceived by Men that may separate you from the common bowl of noodles that currently has Society Confused and Broken?
I will speak frankly about what Men desire in Women, and how we see the world.
Somehow, through some secret communicated social wavelength, Women seem not to know the reality of how we Men see things on a consistent basis.
When a Man initially looks upon a woman, these are the first things we see, in order.
Desired Physical Attributes. Meaning: Butt, Hips, Breast, Waistline, & Height.
Facial Features. Meaning Beauty Factors, Hair, and we as Men take into account the Amount of Make-Up the woman is wearing.
The Flaws of a particular Woman. Basically covering everything a particular Man may not desire from his personal idealistic perspective. Obviously this will vary individually from Man to Man. The greater the attributes he desires or likes about you, the more he is willing to overlook your natural Flaws. Simple.
Anything on top of that is particular to a specific individual Man, and cannot be attested to common average in this structure.
Additionally, it must be stated that there are Men who prefer specific types of Women, and that’s that. Women tend to think that they are being forced to be PERFECT, when that couldn’t be farther from the Truth.
Men’s preferences range from the following:
Men who focus on Facial Beauty. (Face-Men)
Men who focus on the Butt. (Butt-Men)
Men who focus on Breast Size. (Breast-Men)
Men who focus on height.
Men who focus on Skin Tone.
Men who focus on Thin Women.
Men who focus on Athletic Women.
Men who focus on Fat or Thick Women.
Men who focus on a variety between 1-7.
We Men usually use a standard scale that we all understand as the average of how we gauge the Beauty of a Woman.
We use a 0% to 100% standard, or some simply use the range from 1 to 10, both are the same.
Meaning, a Woman that is qualified at 50% means that half of the men of your particular culture would desire such a woman. Yes, Culture has a lot to do with it, as different Cultures have significantly different parameters of what they perceive to be Beautiful. Example: A thick sexy Curvy Asian woman with large Breast, Big Hips & Butt, and strong sexy legs in China, Korea, or Japan would be considered FAT, and unappealing to most Asian Men. Yet, that same woman in the UK or America would be considered ultimately desirable.
Obviously, this means that a woman that is qualified at 100% means that few if any Men of that specific Culture would refuse to date, have sex with, or marry such a woman. This is exceptionally rare. Most Men usually rate Beautiful Women from 70% to 90%, or 7-9.
Allow me to speak on some of the hidden factors we Men can see a mile away that tells us that such a Woman has a serious problem, from Self Confidence issues, to Mental Issues.
#1: The Clown Face
Nothing tells a Man more about a Woman than seeing her with Five Layers of Make-Up on, with Fake Eye lashes, and a Massive Wig or Weave.
The following images are purely examples, as the females in question do Make-Up Transformations on YouTube for entertainment purposes. This is actually happening in society presently, as this has become a reality in how many women present themselves in public currently.
Unfortunately, a crushing story recently came out, of a Woman who somehow was able to prevent her Boyfriend & later her Fiance from discovering that she had been wearing a literal ton of Make-Up using the similar methods from the images posted previously, and actually was able to Marry her Fiance. It is obvious this took place in a country or a social environment in which most couples don’t live together until they are Married, otherwise I don’t think this would be plausible in the least. After the Wedding, and trip to the Honeymoon, after celebrating their vows, the Next Morning finally arrived, and its stated that when she came out of the Shower, and the Man saw her for the FIRST TIME without Make-Up, he FREAKED OUT on her, and immediately left her at the resort, returning to his home and immediately had the marriage annulled. The question was asked how come no one in her family didn’t tell him what was going on? The answer made by the young lady's family made it even worse, because they replied that they thought that surely he knew what she looked like without Make-Up already, and the family was not aware that the Young Lady went so far as to hide her true face and looks from him for nearly a year and a half.
Just when you think something isn’t possible, !BANG!, something like this drops out of the sky.
#2: Poor Attitudes
There is nothing, and I mean absolutely nothing more displeasing from a mile away than a Female with a Bad Attitude. It’s as if nothing makes such a woman happy, but upon closer look, you soon realize that there’s no happiness in this woman’s life, because she’s the source of all the negativity, conflict, and maleficent events & activities in all that’s going on around her.
#3: Loud Mouth Women
You can tie #2 directly to this one. You’ll commonly find that such women that are loud mouth types are usually dejected and disliked by most men. Such Women will then turn to their supposed female friends and begin urinating upon anything positive that they may have going on with another man, and in many ways Bully their supposed female friends into being in the same situation as she’s in. As Misery Loves company.
#4: The Walking Contradiction
From the obvious, the Fat Woman who says she only dates Men that are in good shape. To the Ex-Prostitute Street Hustling Car-Hop Gangster Low Life Loving Female that now turns up with 2-4 Kids, then fixes her mouth to say…”I’m only looking for a Good Man.” The common example of the Single Mother that acts like a Single Man with no Kids is going to treat her & value her like she doesn’t have another man’s children strapped to her hip. The one I think pisses us Men off the most, are the Woman working at a common daily job, and somehow has it her head that some Millionaire guy is going to walk up to her in her common position and location, and select her over the Thousands of Women that prequalify to be at his level & environment.
With those four items being stated it can be surmised that Men are looking for the type of Women they prefer first and foremost. Then everything else is in line with how a Woman carries herself both physically and mentally. I’m not going to put any parameters on that, as the previous listed information is proof enough.
Just as I applied this to my selection of a Wife, I took the time to get to know her well enough to decide that she is worth marrying. My previous Girlfriends all botched their opportunities by being too materialistic, too caught up on their arrogant egos or vanity, had habits that they couldn’t stop doing (e.g. Lying), or had children with another man, which disqualified them from marriage with a man, such as myself, that didn’t have children.
I was once asked how I would handle today’s environment between single Men & Women presently if I was 21 to 31 years old.
My answer: I would look at what Men were dealing with that were 40 to 51, and if they were doing great, I would emulate their actions, but if they were doing poorly; being chased for Child Support constantly by the Women he sired children with, or dealing with common Stripper-Mentality Women, or dealing with Mentally Disturbed Women constantly. Then I would do anything OTHER THAN what they did during their youth.
There's an Old Saying: "Ignorance is Bliss, until it's time to pay the toll of ones ingrained Ignorance."
Consequently, there is another Old Saying, (Not a Biblical Quote): "God Almighty excepts no excuses for not knowing the difference between right & wrong or Good & Evil after the age of 15 years old."
When I see the Single Women that are 40 to 51+ years old living a life if Misery, but falsely telling other Women that they are living the Best Life, I’m looking at a trash bin of lost souls who are now sitting alone in their Apartments or Homes, and no Man is calling their phones anymore. Their two or three Fatherless Children are now pretty much grown, and are either repeating the cycle she started, as the Apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, or the Children have moved away from her to create their own lives.
What supposed Modern Women previously extolled & attested for all to hear was her living her Best Life when she was falsely displaying that she was an INDEPENDENT WOMAN taking on the World by herself, now has eroded into a life of lonely Depression and Regret. While she enters a Home or Apartment with a cat or dog as her only companion.
Oh, it gets worse.
Presently, as of TODAY, the very same Women who once openly Mocked & Trolled the pathetic Men that ran to create AI Girlfriends on specific sites. Instead of letting well enough alone, decided to hide the fact they were secretly partaking in the same act of creating AI Boyfriends. The women re-tagged their actions under the term AI-RI instead of using AI-Boyfriend or BF to hide their actions from common view. Currently, it is stated but unverified, that Women now exceed Men that have created AI Relationships.
Just in case you can’t believe this is real…Here’s a small clip showing how far it has gone.
(Unfortunately, I cannot attach direct Video Content due to ByMeaCoffee's media restrictions.)
Rosanna Ramos, Bronx, NY Reported 7/6/23 Euro News, Marries her AI Generated Chatbot Boyfriend.
No matter what you do as a Man or Woman, we need each other, someone to talk to, someone to touch, someone to feel what you’re feeling. This is at our core structure as Human Beings. We are Communal Creatures no matter how much we claim our desire for Individuality.
We were Individuals from the Moment we were Born. God Almighty only made one of you. There aren’t six or seven of you running about this planet. Yet here we are toiling over the idiocy of the Mentally Disturbed who have painted a path to loneliness and desolate endings.
Believe it or not Ladies, we Men are not opposed to having a Good Woman by our side, but you’ve allowed the Mentally Broken Women to Create so many Barriers preventing you from having an honest opportunity to interact with the Man that may have been the best one for you.
One question remains for the ladies that are currently single:
“How many Men that you were dating consistently or in a committed relationship with have told you they Love you, and yet you still found a way to end the relationship?” (Obviously I’m not speaking of any such relationship that had physical abuse, or overt cheating going on.)
Time and time again, I’ve spoken with Mature Women 35+ who when I ask that question tell me 3 or more Men professed their love for them, and yet they were still single. When I asked the reason for their choice to move on from such a Man, each time, unless it involved violence or cheating, it was something petty, dramatic, and useless. In many cases, they were always looking for something better, because of the influence of Social Media, Street-Chick wannabe Model Prostitutes on Social Media, and the Stripper Mentality women. All this with the wonderful mantra of the Feminist echoing in their ears & minds constantly, which we know factually to be psychologically created to push you away from a sound relationship at its core structure, because of who is behind its design initially, as I stated previously.
When you take into account who is pushing the entire Circle of Information to Women, from a Social Media aspect to a Common Social structured narrative, it all comes down to a truly Nefarious or Maleficent intent. Some may even categorize it as Evil in nature.
Imagine if I manipulated you into believing that you were better off by yourself during your Prime Youthful years, being 20 to 30 years old, when you’re at your best Physically, Mentally, and Socially. Yet, I feed you constant information pushing you to become isolated, walled off, and deterred from being capable of communicating with Men, the core group that would bring about true happiness throughout one’s Life Journey.
Instead of beating a dead horse, let's look at the positive aspects of having an epiphany of enlightenment.
To those ladies, no matter their age. If you seek to jump the fence of all this crap that is preventing you from having a positive loving relationship with a quality man. Gather yourself together, address your health, and physical fitness. Start opening the door to being able to be spoken to in public without acting like every man is walking up to steal your purse.
If you’re using on-line sites to meet Men, push your communication with a Man off being on-line as soon as possible. Even if in order to feel comfortable taking phone calls, you need to buy a 2nd Cell Phone that you know is only for speaking with Men that you want to get to know better, and may be worth pursuing in person.
Remember, Keep your Make-Up Moderate but elegant. Don’t wear Wigs or Weaves, yes I realize that’s a big issue, but try to do so unless you have a bad case of Alopecia, or some other ailment that affects the scalp. (Note: Men prefer Short Natural Hair over a Long Wig or Weave any day.) Dress in an elegant to alluring style that fits your body type. Be open and vibrant in your demeanor. Just relax and let you be you, and let whatever happens happen. Take good care of yourself physically, and never give up on yourself.
Life is about experiences, giving of yourself, and evolving, not about conjecture.
Thank you for taking your Time & Energy to read my Article.
May God Almighty Continue to Bless you.
OMNIGod