Liberation - Karma in Relationships

Liberation - Karma in Relationships

Apr 25, 2023

Divine Laws concur to produce the universal conditions that we experience. We can distill some axioms enough to measure our reality of relationships…

Laws seems to me that they had been purposefully designed to teach us lessons of Love…

Anything Can Be Better and Right With Love and Anything Could Get Worse or Wrong Without Love.

  • Our track on life may undergo a huge shift if we improve our self-love for better.

  • Problems that arise from the lack of love could be solved through communing with Love

  • What’s good or bad is not important as much as what is better and what is worse.

  • Cause even if you have something good at hand better or betterment is always an option we can choose.

  • Good or Bad is always in comparison and depends on the conceptualization of for human mind which can just get better with by application of many facets of love.

  • Thus Better is Better than Good and Worse is Worse than Bad… Which one is yet to come depends on our choice and conscience.

Love itself could and should be loved unconditionally.

  • As with the first individual out of nothing but God justly ended the first loneliness and created the first condition for One to Love Another.

  • As creation of any being, no matter when or why, cames with the possibility of One to Love Oneself, Another and All.

  • Even Fear, very the basic instinct of survival that our bodies are hardly wired upon, can be reinterpreted as a form of Love of Life and Self-Love combined in this context. As with other primary emotions, if understood in a healthy all serve to motivate us to improve conditions.

  • But this may not be the case everytime we lost contact with our souls and rest of All. If we neglect the facts and choose illusion. We may lose control of our primary and complex emotions may become cause of unhealthy thoughts, words, deeds, behavior and habits. But the real cause of such karma is not purely these emotions rather it is our choice of how we live them.

A life full of meaning depends on kind and careful personal and transpersonal love that always improves.

  • We need to meditate as an act of Love of Life and apply meditative practices in our life to satisfy our subtle needs which may quite resemble material needs (such as hunger, thirst, exercise, breathing, rest, hygiene, excrete, comfort, care, communication) and some special needs (Meaningful and Purposeful Life, Improvement of Ideas, Communing with God, Learning, Evolution, etc.) that are especially for subtle realm.

  • The needs that are fulfilled by meditative practices tells that a part of meditation practices should be done regularly like eating, drinking, cleaning, resting, socializing, exercising and sleeping etc.; while some of them could be understood in terms of Projects of Healing, Development and Service.

In the Mathematics of Karma; Problems Are All About Love while Love is the Solution All the While it Coagulates. If there are any Mathematical axioms, one of the first axioms could be that ‘Each relationship is way better with Love.’

One can be free from the karmic chains through adding love and grace to their relationships. Observer always contributes to life, according to the current wisdom of the observer.

  • If you harm someone it is easier for her to seek revenge as a reaction instead of loving you back. No matter how you legalize it.

  • If you get revenge from someone she may still possess hateful feelings even when you approach to each other in a relationship of love at another lifetime.

  • If one lusts to one other, they will know that they lost the most of the pleasure they could get from their company by limiting themselves to the carnal pleasure. Same with acting on hidden agendas one other for limited benefits they just lose most of the profit by overemphasizing the necessity of a tiny little portion of all the profit that we could get from it.

We should get enough so that we may be proficient students of life. But it is still a good investment to infuse Love wholly inside and outside our actions and reactions as thorough enough to embed it even to the summits and deepest depth of our mentality, to have a decent coverage.

By not respecting each others spirituality and eternal life, one deceive one’s own self and the other all the more without seeing how much benefit they could have while they have to create even more than that.

Fruits of enmity and misunderstanding can accumulate just well as the fruits of love and wisdom, until you make a conscious decision and effort.

Until you form a mutual bond of love and trust, you may not set each other free because in the depths of your self you already know that you could found a better relationship and much more blissful experiences at the company of each other under and/or over different conditions.

Eternal Soul knows that in the parallel reality of Unified Whole of All We Are, we are already forming an entity that is above and beyond the sum of All We Are. So we have to know that we see each others harmful and toxic words and deeds, along with the motivation behind them already at a part of our consciousness.

So when you are about to harm anyone, be sure that in eternity, after enough enlightening and awakening experiences your understanding will secure this fact, you can only be free if you come to terms with your victim and she might be your persecutor time after time, if er soul is not wise enough to be just with compassion and grace, switching places or not, things might roll out of control until you all behave with wisdom of love.

Any relationship that lacks love might just resemble an imprisonment for your Divine Potential to unfold, until you fulfill the conditions of the wisdom of love. Lack of love is a self imposed penalty that also penalizes the whole.

Unconditional Love’s wisdom may be distilled unconditionally.

But still, this might be a condition for a way forward and upward…

If you still find revenge, hatred, greed or any kind of harm or deception reasonable, know that human reason is not naturally apt to understand and reason on Divine Matters without development of consciousness along with the mind and rest of the psyche. I sometimes fantasize that people may just unconsciously deny the fact of reincarnation without actually testing it outside their conception, might just as well still want to find their distorted desires reasonable. Because the fact of reincarnation justly reduces any justifacitions in defense of desire to harm and deception obsolete misconceptions. But ignorance is a field that produces train-wrecks of thought. Still what keeps one avoid curiosity while we could just find the truth and improve on it. The fact that is already known by our Eternal Selves, our existence beyond the cycles of reincarnation.

One could radically change one’s beliefs with meditative practices that are aligned with and aimed at wisdom until one reaches to a state of a curious unity with the First Wise along with Friends.

Our Individuality does not mean that we won’t agree on same terms that correctly hold truth if we keep on developing our faculties through Natural and Collective Evolution. While we develop all beliefs turn into knowledge and with experience we distill wisdom. I suppose our misunderstandings and conflicting beliefs are natural products of being in the middle of such processes without knowing where exactly we are while chasing rainbows.

As fruits of love and wisdom can accumulate justly as well as consciously. Abundance depends on care, fertility and productivity.

We should always be cautious when imposing penalties on ourselves or each other because of the current state of our karmic relationships, which are tied to our process of maturation and development of our consciousness. We all learn eventually and the lessons enough to distill the Wisdom of Life and Love, such a course demands lessons that must include variety of experiences that envelop lifetimes. We are yet to know better the diversity of them. Thus proper discipline, guidance and research will prove better. Most of the time we don’t see the better option out of our limitations.

Penalizing for the sake of justice does not guarantee the cessation of injustice, imprisonment may keep one to commit crime while she is imprisoned as a safety measure, this shall not be understood as a main method that serves justice.

  • People can always justify their injustices according to their mentality. So they may think they don’t deserve the penalty they suffer.

  • Suffering that is caused by an unhealthy and harmful penalty may hinder the development of virtue.

Justice can be more real

  1. In a society where everyone is able to control their mind and will; transmuting their emotions, thoughts and desires and aligning them with the Best Interests of the Whole. Conscious realization of virtues and innocence.

  2. Coming to the understanding that crime is unnecessary. There are always alternate methods of acquiring needs in the current phase of evolution.

  3. In a society that provides living conditions that encourages innocence and contribution along with leaving no ground for reason to justify crime.

About this we should consider that Nature had a Food Chain. Animals had to harm or kill another plant, fungus or animal to eat and survive. This depended on the improductivity choice of evolution that were made by protozoa species. Our primal motives and tendencies comes way before civilization, encoded in our genetics all along the natural history through evolutionary process. Our meditative practices can include regression to key handles about Natural Karmic Patterns to heal, transmute, liberate and improve ourselves.

A human soul becomes incarnated in civilized species after experiencing life in animal bodies as well as the other kingdoms. Thus spiritually we carry more lifetimes out in the context of civilization that we should undergo special rehabilitation procedures that serves orientation into values that civil society is built upon.

When people know the best practices of relating, the rewards of such practices may just establish good habits.

Let’s not drive the sword into our body to stab the whole, while we have a lot to earn. Instead of sabotaging ourselves and the whole through us, let’s accept the fact that we still learn and grow even after we are free of ignorance and suffering. What matter’s most anyway? Even if we penalize ourselves we might not doing an even decent justice with our self-imposed self-righteous penalties upon insufficient information.

A purposeful silence on a Divine Track would just prove better than any negative reactions or thought that support negativity at these times.

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