I'd like you to take some time to reflect on everything that’s going on in your business that’s fun, easy, elevating, juicy.
What’s going WELL?
What are you grateful for?
What new and exciting things are you learning and doing and discovering?
What feels light and easeful and UP, like “WHEEEeee!!”
Lmk in the comments.:)
THEN: Meditate on it and marinate in it. Roll around in it like a pig in the mud. 
When you do, you amplify it. And then you start to attract MORE of it!
It’s so easy to start fixating on how far we have to go and what isn’t going “right”.
All the stuff you "still have to do".
It’s easy to get stuck in negative repetitive thought patterns and settle into a perpetual state of stress and anxiousness.
Entrepreneurial martyrdom becomes your default state (“woe is me, business is so hardddd”)
At some point, you may even carve these shitty neural pathways so deep that it’s hard to climb back out. To the point where climbing out takes a GD heroic effort.
But but but but
Instead…
Fixate on the easeful and what’s going well.
If something goes fabulously, goes the way it should, or you receive an unexpected blessing, marinate in that shit and fixate on it TO THE SAME DEGREE you fixate on bullshit, like when someone cuts you off in traffic.
(I know you dwell on that shit for hours and curse that person *shakes fist at sky* )
I’M JUST SAYING, GIVE YOUR ABUNDANCE and joy and easefulness and blessings 🌹🌹EQUAL MENTAL ATTENTION🌹🌹. 
And everything will change.
Unexpected doors will fly open.
PS: Read more about your negativity bias here: https://www.verywellmind.com/negative-bias-4589618
Love,
Melynda Smith
Creator, Doula Biz From Scratch™