A client once asked me: “Why do people treat me well at first but start disrespecting me later?”
The answer wasn’t easy to hear, but it’s something you need to know too:
1. You Don’t Set Boundaries Early
People test limits. If you allow small disrespect, it only gets worse.
2. You Over-explain Yourself
The more you justify your actions, the less they take you seriously.
3. You Let Things Slide Too Often
Ignoring bad behavior doesn’t make it stop—it teaches them they can get away with it.
4. You’re Too Forgiving
They know they can hurt you and still be welcomed back.
5. You Seek Validation
When you crave approval, people sense it—and use it against you.
Respect isn’t given—it’s enforced. Protect yours