“You’re a lonely soul - look at you always alone, it’s sad”
screamed the ex friend I dumped in Greece over two years ago for having too many opinions on MY life lol!
On one hand She’s not wrong.
I am a lone soul but is there anything really wrong with that?
…but lonely? The use of language is so important
And is it sad?
It’s all perspective isn’t it?
As an Aquarian we are known as people repellants
To explain it simply our natural impulse is very much steeped in uniqueness so we are already on the periphery of things.
I was reading a post the other day that asked: What are the good and bad things about Aquarians.
Lol well that sent everyone to town hahaha.
One person actually said “… they don’t want to talk to you unless you’re interesting or have something to offer”
I thought it was hilarious as they said it in a surly kinda way,
like why not just talk trash with us every now and again…
…and I responded and said damn straight we don’t have time for nonsense gossipy chat - waste of our time.
Truth is our so called aloofness is part of our higher purpose we can’t be distracted like that. We can’t be engaging in ridiculous ways of distraction and still be people of the future, it doesn’t make sense…
I spent years in distraction.
Being alone enables us to indulge in the creative experiences of bringing that revolution to the world in whichever way we are designed to bring it.
The past two years I’ve spent most of that time alone and really it’s been the most delicious time in my life.
Being alone never felt so good.
Not listening or participating in random acts of gossip, not being distracted by the outside noise I’m including social media in this (I will write another post about this) and only exposing myself to things I wish to know or deem important has been life changing and nourishing in the way that it enabled me to feast upon myself - yes people self - ish (note separation of the word) and get deeper into my Human Design experiment.
The truth is that in my design I’m a very individual person rather than tribally led.
Alone-ness is very necessary in my design to activate the collective, the tribe into a new way of being. Self indulgent - totally! Apologetic - not at all lol! That’s the thing you see once you accept your mission there is no getting around it or getting away from it.
In the readings I’ve conducted in tarot and HD the last two years has seen everyone on a macro level spending more time alone or craving more time alone. If you were on lockdown with family, your experience was possibly needing more alone time. If you were alone, you probably discovered another dimension to your being.
Either way it’s necessary for the evolution of a vibrational sentient being.
Aloneness and Loneliness, what’s the difference?
Loneliness - sadness because one has no friends or company. There is a need here that isn’t being fulfilled
Aloneness – contentment with having no one else present. This definition is often a choice…
Very distinct differences. That I will look at in relationship to some aspects of human design. If you listen to people or society, it feels like you’re a bit mad to even want to be alone cue screaming banshi ex friend lol but when you look a bit closer to your HD mechanism you will realise that there are various indicators that signal you should be alone more often than you probably are comfortable with (doesn’t mean all the time) for the sake of your own growth and erm sanity…
I fought this tooth and nail but life only became sweet when I decided to release having to consistently be in the company of the other…
There are multiple indicators in the BodyGraph that point to Aloneness not just that but differentiating types of aloneness- it’s hella fascinating because we do just see it as a blanket concept so knowing that there are levels to this makes it all the more interesting.
First of all, have a look at your purpose Right Angle people will need to be alone a lot more we individually mutate to initiate the collective meaning that our own process is what becomes important in achieving that… the Left Angle people are transpersonal they communicate life rather than speak from experience - gosh I hope I’ve got that right lol!
Gates 12,40,33. Although they all share the same theme, they unfold in a different frequency.
I’m not going deep into this as I could write a book just on that alone…
But that’s just a entry way to know that some of us if not all of us are supposed to at some point spend time alone no matter how extroverted you are. As I always say I’m here to ignite you from experience so you can elevate wherever you can…
Why not start with accepting and loving your aloneness…