When we don't see the results in our live, many people's answer is you just need to love yourself more.
While this is great advice, you can get stuck in a cycle of trying to love yourself more and telling yourself you don't love yourself enough to get what you want.
Which just keeps you stuck.
Sometime you do love love yourself and it's about shifting your assumptions about the thing you desire.
So how do you know the difference?
Start to become aware of your beliefs around your desires and see if anything you think is limiting.
Then look at how you show up for yourself. If you're still doing the following things, self love will help.
Beating yourself up for mistakes and failures
Still having negative self-talk about yourself and about who you are
Not putting yourself first and not having boundaries
Letting other peoples opinions and judgements shape your self worth
Not trusting yourself and your inner guidance
Feeling scared that people will hurt you or abandon you
If you are doing any of the above, I would start with doing inner child work.
And start affirming: I am loving myself more and more each day, and I love myself enough to have what I desire.
If you need more information on doing inner child work, you can check out my post here: https://femaleworth.com/inner-child-work/
Big love ✌🏼🥰
Laura xx