Here are the choices for today's pick a card
If you have chosen Pile #1..
This person seem to be considering you as a sex partner but after observing you it seems like this person concluded that you are full of yourself, arrogant and tends to say hurtful things when you do not get what you want. This is the type of person who is not attracted to people who have confidence issues - may it be too much confidence or too unsure of themselves. This is not a flat no, though. You may still get this person's attention but you have to fix something about what you think is a turn on to them. Then the chances to have sex with this person may pop up.
Also, there is something about BDSM that I sense in the cards. Queen of Wands is the Boss Queen. Maybe their fantasy is about humiliation and submission and this person does not think you are that type or you said it flat out that ( I am hearing in my head.. ) you find the " 50 shades of Grey thingy corny ". This can also be reversed. Maybe you want to be a submissive or you are a Dominant but this person does not want to involve him/herself into anything BDSM - ish.
Try to observe this person first and be genuine in what and who you really are. Stop pretending because this person will sense it.
If you have chosen Pile #2..
Not as soon as you like. This person is very conscious about what he/she can give you. This may be someone who had been in a co-dependent relationship and is making sure that it won't happen again. This person is very conscious about their financial and social status and may be a workaholic. Also, this person may think that they have to be sure that they have what you want, what you deserve and what you need. He or she must be possessive and will do their best to make sure you will not seek your pleasures somewhere else. This person may also be a sex addict that they have to teach themselves some control or they won't be able to stop. You may feel bored waiting for this person to make their move and you may think that it's a turn off for them if you invite them to have sex with you and if YOU initiate the sexual act. You must know that they are trying to control themselves because they think that they are not ready. Beware though once this person decides on doing it with you. This is a perfectionist. He or she will have everything prepared - the feels, location, food, aphrodisiac, which aroma to entice you with, etc.
Do not be surprised that this person will ask a lot of questions prior to the night of the planned date to do it. This person will want to know what you like, what you hate and what turns you on. They may even make sure you have a fair amount of time to indulge once you agree to have sex with them. I am also sensing something about chastity or only begging you for it once they can no longer hold it.