Indu Harikumar
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Fear of abandonment

Fear of abandonment

Sep 17, 2021

In Feb this year, I asked folks on my Instagram:
What measures do you take so they don't abandon you?

Me: 'If they need you, they won't leave you,' that seems stuck in my head. Also being useful makes me feel so validated. So I give like a Dariya dil. And then when someone keeps taking, I self righteously diss them. Ever heard of giving back, you shameless person?

Mostly,I need to feel like I'm of use and that person is only fulfilling that need. As I give, I want security from them that they will give me a little of (which keeps me going for long) and never leave me. 

This is what different folks told me and I had to draw this:

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